As humans, we are often plagued by feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.

We tend to look in our mirrors only to criticize the perceived flaws in ourselves.

We mentally fold ourselves up into the tiniest possible thing so we can hide ourselves away.

Sometimes, we may say silly things such as, “When I lose 10 pounds, I’m going to do this or that,” or “If I were any good at ______, I’d really be able to be successful.”

While it may be a human tendency for many people to gravitate toward the negative, it’s very important that we learn to turn this “stinkin’ thinkin’” around.

One of the first requirements for maturity and success is liking who we are. That doesn’t mean that we ignore things that might need improvement, but it does mean accepting that we are human.

Diamonds are formed after millions of years of pressure is applied to rotting vegetation and animal matter.

Who doesn’t love a good diamond!

Like us, each one has its flaws. If you want to change something about yourself, do so.

But do so because you want to, and not because you think someone else cares.

Do the same with your future. You know what you enjoy. You know what you like to do. Only you can dream your dream of tomorrow.

The world is uncertain and our economy is shaky. These seem to be one of the few constants in life.

So, hop on the merry-go-round and reach as far as you can for your brass ring. In time,you’ll grab it.

—Mary Turner
Learning Support Specialist